Gay/Lesbian Survivors

Violence and Sexual Assault in Lesbian Relationships

• Do you feel pushed to have sex when you don't want to?
• Do you ever have sex just to "keep the peace?"
• Does your partner want sex after a fight when you don't want it?
• Have you ever just laid there during sex because you felt resisting was more risky?
• Has she ever given you a hard time if you wanted to stop halfway through?
• Does your partner use sexual name calling against you?
• Does your partner make you feel ashamed about your sexual desires or fantasies?
• In the context of S&M, are you ever confused about where the scenes begin and end?
• Has your partner accused you of not being a real lesbian?
• Does your partner threaten to have or have affairs when you both have agreed to be monogamous?

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